today i am grateful for

these things:

• each of you.  i love that you come here.  thank you for that.
• how 30 days of gratitude...recognizing the true abundance of life...can make a girl's heart swell and glow.
• for the opportunity to stand still and solid with the atlantic and sort some things out (photo of me by the lovely jenica mckenzie).
• for those times when i get restless (like today) to change, to do something different, to move faster toward potential and fullness and wholehearted living.

thank you for sharing gratitude with me. 

today i am grateful for

being different.

so there's this big green pasture that i drive by from time to time.  it's dotted with a hundred lovely white cows.  and one brown donkey.

the donkey makes me smile every time.  he's totally just getting his donkey groove on in the midst of cattleville.  this weekend, i decided to stop and take some photos.  the cows were uncertain and ran in the opposite direction, making sure to keep a safe distance.  the donkey confidently trotted right up and looked me in the eye with a happy greeting.

it's funny to write that i recognized a kindred spirit in the donkey.  but there you go.

today i am grateful for

starry night skies, three stinky-face dogs, turkey with mayo on a leftover squishy roll, mittens, the gifts of imperfection and finding my wish ticket from squam in my coat pocket.

today i am grateful for

all the times i got it backwards, colored outside its lines and generally fucked it up.

because of that, i can love more honestly, openly and fully with my whole wild heart.

“love is the ultimate outlaw. it just won't adhere to any rules. the most any of us can do is to sign on as its accomplice. instead of vowing to honor and obey, maybe we should swear to aid and abet. that would mean that security is out of the question. the words "make" and "stay" become inappropriate. my love for you has no strings attached. i love you for free.”

-tom robbins

today i am grateful for

having enough to eat and not having to think about where my next meal is coming from. 

today i am grateful for

the simple things.

happy {official} gratitude day, friends.

today i am grateful for

the courage to be enough.  with no disclaimers.

today i am grateful for

the little box of organization that is the start of an art studio.  we cleared some space and are knocking a big hole in the wall for french doors and more light.

also:  the box holding the alcohol inks is simply decorated with japanese masking tape, which i am still swooning over.  tomorrow i'll show you what i did with the lid of the box after i tore it off.

also:  love, love, love alcohol inks (thanks mccabe!).  their color and spread on the surface is divine.

what are you starting?

today i am grateful for

art.

painting, photography, cutting and pasting, stringing words together, marvelling at others' work:  no matter the medium or method, art saves me.

today i am grateful for

a fantastic time with melissa at the flea market.  i love all the color, story and whimsy at the market.  nipper came home with me.  sadly, the magic carpet did not.

today i am grateful for

not having to be at work, the big c, a tiny squam reunion, greek yogurt with honey and walnuts, and when i told my husband i really, really, really want to quit my job, he said, "be an artist."

happy saturday beauties!

today i am grateful for

losing my way.

today i am grateful for

being thursday's child, that moment when babies melt into you, animal crackers and ginger ale, my big bed and business day trips that take me through the gorgeous shenandoah valley.

today i am grateful for

happy boots on grey days.

today i am grateful for

the sound of rain on the roof, jury duty, pumpkin lattes, my sweet man, crazy fun dreams in need of analysis, stores that refuse to engage in christmas until thanksgiving is over and having no need for proper punctuation.

today i am grateful for

 
little scenes.

ever since childhood i've set up tiny collections of goodness around my space.  it started with a wee pink pig wearing overalls that i painted in a ceramics class.  he was carefully placed among flintstones jelly jars filled with water and flowers picked from the yard. 

in my early twenties when money was scarce, it was a collage of images cut from magazines and thriftstore books then taped to my closet door.  this montage served as an inspiration board before i knew what that meant.  i would lie in bed and stare and dream and plan and heal and smile.

when i first started making a real income, the scenes got a little out of control.  i started accumulating way too many objects.  like a crazed magpie, i hunted for and acquired anything shiny and new and trendy.

today the little scenes are pared down to the essence of their personal meaning:  a bit of memory, a touch of wish and a whole lot of beauty.  each one makes me very happy.

today i am grateful for

nesting.

and lazy saturdays when there is absolutely no need or desire to leave the house or even get out of pajamas.  these days give me space and security simultaneously.  and time to mull over questions.  here are some of my answers:

yes.
viridian green.
prague.
rain boots!
a peppermint milkshake.
yes.

today i am grateful for

memories.

three weeks ago today, my saturday morning routine went something like this:

• wake at 5am to a dark silent house
• climb three flights of stairs to the kitchen to make coffee
• open the giant doors to be greeted by the sea and stars
• sit in the big white chair wrapped in a blanket, sip coffee and gaze at the horizon line
• watch as the faint pink line begins to glow and deepen to red
• when it is light enough, take coffee and camera and head to the sand
• quietly and respectfully navigate other morning beachsitters as they experience their own sunrise
• literally hold back tears as the sea slowly gives you a giant ball of fire
• love how your skin is glowing golden pink
• forget holding back the tears
• feel small and powerful at the same time
• love how everyone knows the exact time to start being social with cheerful greetings
• wish for girlfriends in everyday life who say, "good morning beautiful" and mean it

good morning beautifuls.

today i am grateful for

mindy lacefield.

it was pure kismet that we were assigned the little room downstairs in the big beach divas house at squam by the sea.  it was pure love in action that grew our instant connection.

mindy is an artist and a dreamer and a sensitive wise soul.  her sense of whimsy is contagious and it serves as a technicolor dream coat over her mad wit and brilliant mind.  i am so lucky to know her.

mindy was in a few of my art workshops at squam.  it's fascinating to watch her create a piece.  she moves with speed and instinct and magic.  the art in my photo above is her signature little girl.  i fell in love with it just as i fell in love with her.  because mindy has such a big sweet heart, the art came home with me. 

see mindy's space and work here.  you won't regret it.

happy friday loves!

today i am grateful for

moments of "exercise".

i abhor the gym.  all the sweat and grunting and bad music and silicone can ruin my day in the blink of an eye.  and the shots i had to have during batgate 2010 left my joints stiff and unpredictable.  and in all honesty, i just flat-out neglect my yoga class and really any regular fitness program. 

so when i have the opportunity to take a walk up to court during my work day, i jump on it.  it's two blocks straight up from my office and then 200-some steps. 

of course, i'm even more grateful for the walk back to the office.

p.s.  there are so many projects to make with japanese masking tape!  i'm primarily using them in some mixed media work i'm doing right now, but i also covered a plastic headband to make perfect stripes.  google "japanese masking tape projects"...there are so many wonderful ways to use it.

today i am grateful for

japanese masking tape.

is it weird to say that tape changed my life?

today i am grateful for

autumn.

and stripey socks.

today i am grateful for

having to make this choice:  paris or prague?

if you've been around here a while, you know i've been crazy-planning my paris trip.  as usual in the curious casa, something came up to get in the way.  but this time, it was another destination...ken is taking his theatre students to the prague quadrennial exhibition of theatre design. 

at first i was all pissy.  and i was resentful because ken suggested we just do both (oh, the unlimited summer thinking of a teacher...). 

then i got a grip.

and i remembered the 24 year old me who sat in the public library reading travel books.  and i reminded myself that i'm trying to be more flexible and spontaneous and adventurous.  and then i thought that prague seems like a darker, less-cliche version of paris, so it just might be the city for me.

i am so thankful that i get to go to places i used to just dream about. 

{flickr artists here.}

today i am grateful for

the oatmeal meditation.

on quiet and still-dark weekend mornings, i stand alone at the stove and take the time to cook steel cut oats.  my stove is old and emits a gentle hum when turned on.  the twenty-three minutes of stirring engage just enough physical activity to distract me into stillness.  the steam breaks loose hard emotions like anxiety, anger, shame and pulls them away and out the vent.  i breathe in the scent of cinammon, honey and vanilla and am replenished with a sense of boldness and warmth. 

i add walnuts and dried berries (lately i'm into goji berries...have you tried these?) and my hands surround the warm fullness of the bowl.  with each lift of the spoon, i am nourished, filled, loved.

grace in a bowl.

seriously, it's the closest thing i have to a regular meditation practice.

today i am grateful for

being a brave girl.

here are some brave things i've done lately:

1. spoke the truth
2. got messy with paint
3. held up my art proudly and talked about it in a group
4. let someone see the real me
5. let myself be vulnerable
6. talked about my fears
7. gave comparison a rest
8. laid low
9. told a woman i barely know that i thought she was brave (she was!)
10. let love in

today i am grateful for

extra wicked hot & sour soup that knocked the would-be killer virus on its butt.

today i am grateful for

a home that belongs to me. 

i've gone without a space of my own too many times in my life to underestimate the stability and security a home provides.  i could never take it for granted.

this one, it holds me.

thank you little brick house and big back yard and tiny magical forest.

today i am grateful for

the freedom to express my opinion.

today i am grateful for

beginnings.

mornings, first days of the month, new years day, even mondays...if it's officially the start of something, i love it.  the sense of the clean slate, of the do-over, of pure possibility is one of the most exhilarating feelings i experience.  the power to begin again polishes the roughness of loss.  there is nothing like the energy of new.

for the past month, i've been somewhat obsessed with the word 'begin'.  i went to squam thinking i would make a piece of art with the word in it.  while there, the spectacular sunrises deepened my awareness and connection to the art of beginning.

in my last workshop, i randomly picked this blessing and it was read to me by the lovely jen lee:

"just when it feels like everything is over, a new beginning is about to be born."

today i am grateful for

finding love in unexpected places.  and people.